Colossians 3:23-24
Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as
working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an
inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
1 Peter 3:15
But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always
be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for
the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.
Psalm 27:13
I am still confident of this: I will see the
goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.
To LISTEN to Our Daily Bread ~ LISTENING May 22, 2014
Listening
By David H. Roper
Read: Job 2:11-13
Oh, that
I had one to hear me! —Job 31:35
Bible in a Year:
1 Chronicles 16-18;
John 7:28-53
In her book
Listening to Others, Joyce Huggett writes about the importance of learning to
listen and respond effectively to those in difficult situations. As she relates
some of her own experiences of listening to suffering people, she mentions that
they often thank her for all she’s done for them. “On many occasions,” she
writes, “I have not ‘done’ anything. I have ‘just listened.’ I quickly came to
the conclusion that ‘just listening’ was indeed an effective way of helping
others.”
This was the help
Job sought from his friends. While it is true that they sat with him for 7 days
in silence, “for they saw that his grief was very great” (2:13), they didn’t
listen when Job started talking. Instead, they talked and talked but failed to
comfort him (16:2). “Oh, that I had one to hear me!” Job cried (31:35).
Listening says,
“What matters to you matters to me.” Sometimes people do want advice. But often
they just want to be listened to by someone who loves and cares about them.
Listening is hard
work, and it takes time. It takes time to listen long enough to hear the other
person’s true heart, so that if we do speak, we speak with gentle wisdom.
Oh, Lord, give us a
loving heart and a listening ear.
He bowed a listening ear;
I called my Father, and my God,
And He subdued my fear. —Watts
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